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Doing Relationships Right

Join Jennifer Hurvitz on the Doing Relationships Right Podcast as she takes you on a journey through the rollercoaster of love, providing valuable insights and practical advice along the way. With an emphasis on self-improvement and personal growth, this podcast is your guide to navigating breakups, building resilience, and finding the right partner for a fulfilling and healthy relationship.

Feb 22, 2022

Are you dating after divorce? Tough.

Are you dating after divorce WITH the baggage from your previous relationship? Ugh. Don’t even get me started.

My guest today is Author, Speaker, and Transformation Coach Tonya Carter who talks about reinventing yourself after divorce, what she does, and how she helps her clients with her strategies so they can manage their relationships in life, work, and business.

Tonya is a certified speaker, transformation coach, author, and podcast host who works with women to discover their voice, build themselves from the inside out, become leaders in their homes, and find their life’s purpose.

Being a single mother of two, Tonya realized that she allowed her circumstances to hold her from discovering her true life’s purpose. Experiencing divorce, five job losses in four years, unhealthy relationships, financial hardships, health setbacks, and balancing single motherhood took its toll mentally, emotionally, financially & physically. She decided to stop being the victim and became the victor of her life, and she wants the same for other women. 

As a certified consultant, Tonya works with women entrepreneurs to discover their inner genius, create an environment for others on their team to develop a win/win, and use the best communication tactics that manage others to form successful team building and performance.

Tonya has written a book titled “Divorce Your Story: A Woman’s Guide to Heal & Thrive after Divorce” and also facilitates a 12-week T.H.R.I.V.E Program that walks women through the process of uncoupling by providing support, advice, resources, and tools that will help mitigate interruptions in their business, work performance, and household obligations. And has a podcast called The Reinvent U Podcast, which focuses on mindset, emotions, finances, health, faith, and building meaningful relationships to become the best version of themselves in their personal & professional lives. 

Thank you, Tonya, for joining me again on Doing Relationships Right! 


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Show notes:

[2:24] More about Tonya and her story

[5:08] How he helps her clients

[8:59] You cannot date without getting divorced from your story

[12:52] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (

[13:52] Does she think that men are too quick to move into new relationships?

[19:00] Mrs. to Me Summit on March 25 - 27, 2022

[19:37] Her book, podcast, and mini-course

[24:07] Outro